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How to use a vibrator during intercourse

Many women use vibrators for self-stimulation but do not dare introduce their sex toy to their partner. However, those couples who take an advantage of using sex toys during the intercourse find them reliable and easy way to ensure orgasm for both. This is especially important for women who need additional stimulation during sex play.

Why to use sex toys during intercourse?

1.To enhance erotic sensations

Now we have a variety of vibrators to make each couple's sex life more than just spicy. Dildo vibrators and G-spot vibrators for penetration, clitoral stimulators, bullet vibrators, nipple vibrators and many other sex toys can turn every encounter into sparkling sex joy if only you and your partner is open to new sensations.

What vibrators to use?

Anal vibrators

Anal vibrators such as vibrating butt plugs and anal beads, anal probes and wands are sex toys that are designed for backdoor stimulation. You will need to use a lot of lubricant for this play to ensure smooth and pleasant stimulation. You can use anal vibrators in a variety of ways:

• Insert anal vibrator before the intercourse for warming up.
• Introduce a vibrating butt plug and leave it for stimulation during the intercourse.
• Insert vibrating anal beads and pull them out as you feel your partner reaches orgasm

Nipple vibrators

Nipple vibrators provide special sensations for women who enjoy nipple play. These sex toys in a shape of nipple pumps that create sucking effect around nipples and nipple clams for more intense sensations that can border on a bit painful(very enjoyable for many women).

• Place nipple vibrators on your nipples-most are designed to adjust to your nipples comfortable so you won't need to hold them on place. Simply turn on the controller and add pleasure to usual intercourse

2. To help woman reach orgasm

It is known that only 35 percent of women can orgasm during the intercourse and most of women are able to reach the peak of sexual pleasure only with additional clitoral stimulation.

Those women who use vibrators know that it takes them little time of direct clitoral stimulation to bring them desirable orgasm but do not take advantage of this knowledge being with a partner. Thus if both partners care about mutual satisfaction, sex toys can be of great help.

What vibrators to use?

Hands-free clitoral vibrators

These vibrators come in wide range of shapes from butterfly to beaded thong that have straps that could be attached to woman's body and give a possibility for woman to enjoy hands-free delight.

• Adjust straps around your your waist and or thighs and set a vibrating function on a remote control as your partner penetrates you.

Stimulators and massagers

This vibrators are all-purpose and can be used for many purposes for any body parts, but are mostly used by women for clitoral fun. Try to choose slender and contoured vibrators with comfortable handle, like Hitachi Magic Wand or Laya Spot to make sure you won't experience any difficulties while holding this vibrator during the intercourse.

• Choose a comfortable position where you can stimulate your clitoris with vibrator and allow your partner penetrate you. Sitting on top of man, doggy style, when a woman is in all fours and man penetrates from behind, or missionary position - you can experiment to find what suits you the best for three:you , your partner and vibrator.
• You can ask your partner to stimulate you with vibrator during the intercourse for example in a rear entry position.

3. To make men last longer

Many women require a lot more time than men to reach orgasm. In this situation lasting longer in bed is a big advantage for both partners. And if partners really want to reach the desired big O simultaneously - vibrator can be a sure and easy way to make this come true.

What vibrators to use?

Cock rings

Cock rings are special sex toys created to enhance please for men and prolong the intercourse. Cock rings come in a shape of a one or several rings placed on men's genitals (penis and/or testicles) which restrict blood flow providing stronger and longer erection during intercourse. Many cock rings have additional vibrating stimulator for woman's clitoris thus providing women pleasant additional stimulation and prolonging the intercourse for man.

• Adjust cock ring when penis is erect if it's adjustable(strap cock ring) type or before the intercourse when it's non-adjustable (o-ring cock rings).
• Turn on the vibrating element on your cock ring and find a position where woman's clitoris can come in close contact with clitoral stimulator on a cock ring. Missionary position when you face your partner or woman on top positions are most suitable for this kind of stimulation.